Vegans on the Box

My husband and I love TV, not the stupid adverts or the right wing/left wing bickering news programmes regurgitating people’s lives as entertainment but the impressively ridiculous world that is TV series’. So much more intelligent!

What I love most about them now is when my husband and I turn our heads to each other in delirious, nonsensical excitement when the word or the idea of ‘veganism’ comes up.
If you are not vegan (even if you are) and you think that is particularly tragic I would hasten to agree with you but, oh boy the joy!!

Veganism has been around since Donald Watson coined the term in the forties however, it hasn’t always had much positive press although as I and many others say ‘any press is good press’.
In our life time, in this generation things are becoming more vegan friendly, we exist as a people and as an entity, we still are seen by a lot of people as freaks, weirdos, or downright extremists but the TV is being a lot more cautious towards us and realising that we may just be 1% but as we all know 1% can rule the world.

Recently we have started watching ‘The Blacklist’ now we are a little behind since we rely on the internet and didn’t even know this show existed until recently and so, we haven’t actually reached the episode that focuses on poaching as described by this article however, in a season 1 episode James Spader’s character couldn’t help attributing someone’s pale complexion to his obvious lack of protein: ‘He isn’t a vegan is he?’
As a vegan that whole protein thing is redundant but we got so excited that he actually said the word, that the word is becoming so commonplace that we forgave Mr. Spader for his lack of fact-checking. Feeding stereotypes or not, for now I will take any recognition. I live in Korea; ‘veganism’ is not a word that anyone knows of.

Another show that regularly targets animal issues and hints at veganism (although when I last watched it, it had only danced around the notion of vegetarianism) is ‘Bones’ thanks to the wonderfully influential main character, Emily Deschanel.
Bones is shown on Fox, a tv channel that makes some people’s hair stand on end. Owned my Rupert Murdoch a man who has been in the spotlight for his notorious political views and most infamously for hacking people’s ‘phones (including murdered schoolgirl Milly Dowler) in the name of ‘journalism’.
I don’t think I would be out-of-line in believing that Mrs. Deschanel wouldn’t agree with most of Murdoch’s ethics and yet money talks and being such a hugely successful show Murdoch has yet to cut the ties. Bones continues to influence people towards a more compassionate way of living. 

My husband likes ‘Gotham’ I have to admit I am not a fan, too dark and dismal for my taste but, I am jumping for joy and raising its ratings when it mentions veganism.
Poison Ivy shouts to someone preparing food for her ‘don’t forget I am a vegan’.
Some people may be confused by this since she controls plants and her aim in life is to save the world’s plant life by any means necessary- *ahem as my husband explained to me- but, actually, by not eating meat she is consuming less plants than if she wasn’t a vegan.
Check out point 1 here.

The rise of veganism in mainstream media, whether a punch line or not is raising eyebrows and promoting thought. We need more and more people to become acquainted with the notion that we are a group of people that integrate and exist and spend our Saturday nights watching the same things as a meat-eater would. We deserve to have room in the box and we deserve to be acknowledged.

I will continue to listen out for any more references with the same excitement as a dog at dinner time and punch the air when a salad is served over a steak.






The Good the Bad, and the Ugly

What is the best and worst parts of your vegan lifestyle?

Lifestyle by definition is the interests, opinions, behaviors, and behavioral orientations of an individual, group, or culture.

Is Veganism a lifestyle?
It is certainly my interest, my opinion and my behaviour. Everything I do in my life is styled around Veganism but I have been told in one of the survey answers that I shouldn’t coin veganism as a lifestyle and I am not sure why but I could guess that maybe lifestyle undermines the very importance of veganism?
I would definitely never desire to take away anything from the importance of veganism.

So to clarify, I should have asked;
What is the best and worst aspects of being a vegan?

Personally, the best thing is discovering the truth about everything. Veganism could be metaphorically described as climbing up a ladder, each rung is a new piece of knowledge a new ‘aha’ moment.
I was a vegetarian for 11 years purposely oblivious to the cruel dairy industry and the negative effects that dairy was having on my health.
When I knew/let myself know I could no longer ignore that cows were suffering and I became a vegan, along with my husband, in 2012. I felt that I had advanced a step, I knew more and better still I had acted on it.
Later I became more knowledgable about the actual ingredients in my products and then I made the conscious decision to make ethical choices (ingredients and company wise) when buying anything and everything from clothes to toothpaste.

What other vegans have said in regards the best parts of being vegan, ranges from simply being healthier, to the excitement of finding new vegan food, to feeling complete inner peace. A sense of balance in mind and body. Before becoming a vegan most know that it is the right thing to do especially if they have already stopped eating meat but so many obstacles are thrown up in terms of socialising and accessibility.
However, once you commit yourself then you are on the road less traveled, the right side of justice, no longer complicit in the heinous industrial animal complex.

As Gene Baur, owner of The Farm Sanctuary in America, said on The Daily Show last week;
There is not much we control in our lives but what we eat is one of the things we can.

‘Veganism frees me from a basic fear’.

The worst part for me about being a vegan is what I also said in the positive part, I can not buy many things without putting a lot of thought and effort into it. I am not perfect, and as I have said before veganism is actually not about being perfect it is about facing the reality that no one is but it hurts when I can’t get things right. I am much more sensitive to what I consume and purchase and I feel I always have eyes on me.

People who are not vegan find it very difficult to understand the concept and there is much hostility towards those who are.
I have had people attack me for buying a smart phone, even though I am pretty sure they had one, because they believe I care for animals more than people.
The fact is I care for both, if the world transitioned to a plant-based diet less people would die of starvation because the crops used to feed livestock could be used for human consumption.
I do not buy from certain companies such as Nike or Primark because I know they are notorious for their human rights issues but that doesn’t matter I am vegan and if I step out of line it is noted.

I have been judged a lot for my diet by those I know as well as strangers. I have been goaded and unfairly attacked usually when I am trying to peacefully eat a meal, it has caused awkwardness and heartache and it has taken a long time for me to be strong and to stand by who I am.
Plus knowing the facts about what animals go through on a second- to- second basis is not easy, ‘ignorance is certainly bliss’.

Others have said that veganism can prove to be a lonely journey especially if you haven’t found any active vegan groups or friends to talk with.
Buying products can often prove to be a headache especially when traveling and requires much time and energy researching and eating out can also be difficult or disappointing. Spending time with friends and family eating has become such a huge part of human society that we often feel that we are missing out on these moments however, as Jonathan Safron Froer quoted in ‘Eating Animals’;

How much do I value creating a socially comfortable situation, and how much do I value acting socially responsible?

*Thanks to all who helped with the survey*

Give them Words.

I don’t know why he dealt me this card,
No sun, No purity, No love, No life.

I want to have been born for more than this,
If this is it then please, take it back.

I had joy just once, when I suckled my babes
but they were snatched, lost to me.

I have misplaced it all and yet I never found it.

I don’t understand the pain I am delivered,
I vow that I did no wrong.

It seems it is time to go.

I have lain here forever and a day,
Unable to exercise my soul.
Now I am moving, they are taking me to another place.

I am excited, my heart beats,
It may all just begin today…